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Special only because it was so ordinary.

Just like a rainy Saturday calls for a cup of hot chocolate and some snuggle time under the covers, a sunny Sunday calls for bubble blowers and a picnic at the Botanics.

On picnic Sundays (and basically any other day), our responsibilities are pretty clear. The husband does the crazy running with the bubble thingy and I do the chilling out under the shade. Occasionally, I also help out with the motivation bit by calling out for him to run faster.

With Kirsten turning 2 in a couple of weeks, the kids are at an optimum age to max out the enjoyment factor on these family outings. When they were younger, they used to get grouchy if it was too hot, too humid, too sticky, too dirty, too hungry and we would be spending most of the time trying to make them feel comfortable.

Now it’s like “FOOD? WHO NEEDS FOOD? LOOK THERE ARE BUBBLES!” Which makes life a lot easier and so much more fun.

These Sundays are extra special to me because at some point in their lives, they’re not going to want to spend their Sunday mornings running around chasing bubbles with us. I’m hoping it’s later than sooner but when it happens, I want to know I’ve given them enough baby hugs and blown enough bubbles and soaked up every moment spent with them.

When they’re off with their super cool friends doing whatever cool kids do in 15 years, it’s going to be a lot easier to let them go knowing that I made the most out of all the time I had with them.

It was one of those Sundays that’s special simply because it was so ordinary. Exactly the kind I want to remember.

Kidspeak

Sleep training: A head banging experience

As far as sleep training is concerned, the kids have been regressing over the past couple of months. For a very brief spell, we had a good thing going – put them down, say goodnight and then walk out.

Then it started with a “I want mommy to stay 5 minutes” and became “Mommy can pat me please” which turned into “Mommy must sit here while I climb around for 2 hours”. For the past couple of months, their routine has evolved to having me sit on a couch in between their beds till they fall asleep.

Granted, it’s fairly nonintrusive. I get to sit there and do my stuff on the laptop. From time to time, I have to say things like “LIE DOWN NOW” and “STOP CLIMBING” and “KNOCKING YOUR HEAD IS NOT FUNNY, JUST STOP IT”.

After struggling for 2 hours to put them to bed without success yesterday, I decided it was time to start their hardcore training program. Which basically involves me leaving the room and holding the door shut from the outside. I was hoping that they would whine a little, then give up and drag their little feet back to bed.

As I stood outside waiting for the sweet, sweet sound of remorseful whining, I heard this instead.

Truett: Ok I tell you what, let’s play toys!

Kirsten: OH LET’S PLAY TOYS!!

Truett: Mommy will stand outside so we can play toys and later she will come back.

Me: Hey, no I won’t. If you guys don’t lie down, I’m not coming back in.

Truett: Mei mei, listen to me. We just play toys a while then later we sleep.

*The sound of me banging my head against the wall outside their room*

25 minutes later, I’m still standing outside their room. It’s like I’m the one going through the hardcore training program. This is me after 25 minutes of head-banging.

Kirsten: I want mommy, I don’t want to play toys anymore.

Truett: Don’t worry, mommy is just outside. It’s going to be ok.

Kirsten: It’s going to be ok, kor kor. We can play toys.

Kids: 1, Mommy: 0

I clearly need a new strategy.

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MISSING: Have you seen this duck blankie?

For the first 6 months of her life, Kirsten had a best friend called Kiki. They loved each other like best friends did and spent many happy moments together.

And then one day, I lost her (the friend, not Kirsten). She was real upset and cried herself to sleep for many nights.

We searched everywhere for a new best friend but it was just not the same. Too furry, too pink, too thick, not fluffy enough. Eventually, she settled on a new friend and we all heaved a sigh of relief because things were good again.

Just to be safe, we even went out to buy 4 more of those new friends as backups. We would have bought more if not for the fact that we seemed to have bought the last 5 bright yellow Goldbug duck blankies in the entire Singapore.

Over the past year and a half, we lost 4 of them. And last week, we lost the 5th one. I know, like who loses 5 blankies right?

Well, apparently, I do.

I’m now offering a reward of $19.95, a pack of gummies and a very nice email for anyone who is able to find this duck.