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A walk in the park

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Once we got used to the brain-numbing cold, we discovered that New York in the winter is rather breathtaking. And yes, we did acclimatise after all, or rather, we figured out how to be better prepared for the arctic blast.

1. Layer up (this is the one time it’s ok to take fashion cues from Baymax), 2. Take frequent pit stops (for cookies, macarons, cupcakes) and 3. Get lots of hot chocolate on the go. We also fashioned this cosy stroller hideout cocoon for the kids, which they loved – we were staying at the Trump Soho and the hotel staff supplied the kids with soft, plushy blankets to keep them all warm and nice in the stroller.

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It must have been real comfy in there because Finn would fall asleep within minutes after getting in his stroller. The combination of cold air and plushy warm blankie = immediate KO.

Speaking of sweet treats, I have to introduce to you to the two best desserts we had this trip. We tried a bunch of pretty good ones but these two were truly remarkable. And so, the two most divine specimens of sugary goodness we had in NYC, ranked in order of deliciousness…

Number one: behold the beauty that is a Levain cookie.

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It does not look like much but this thing is the size of a scone, perfectly crisp on the outside, with a soft, crumbly, chocolatey inside. This little shop along the Upper West Side was so crowded when I got there but the wait outside in the cold was so worth it. I ate the cookie over 2 nights with a glass of milk and lo, it was good till the very last crumb.

Number two: cupcakes from Magnolia Bakery. The texture, taste and moistness level of the carrot cupcake will bring tears to your eyes. The other flavours were good too, but the carrot cupcake, that’s a clear winner.

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In between our food discovery pit stops, we made our way to Central Park, which was covered in powdery snow like a winter wonderland. There was stomping to be had after all!!

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Just look at all that beautiful snow. If it wasn’t so insanely cold (I’m not asking for much, I’d be happy with anything above 0 degrees celsius), I would most definitely have flung a snowball at the husband and then built a snowman. Yes, I do want to build a snowman, always yes. But that would mean that the kids would immediately follow suit and probably make it back with several missing fingers. And those little fingers are important, so that snowball showdown will just have to wait.

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*This is part where I tell you the story of Finn and the lunatic bird outside the American Museum of Natural History. There he was, just chillin’ with the magnificent statue of one Theodore Roosevelt, when this bird swooped down and attempted to attack him. Maybe it thought Finn was easy to pick on, or maybe it’s very possessive about its statue but the result was me having to fight off the bird with my frozen stump hands.

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Kirsten had such a great time skating at Rockerfeller that we decided to go for round 2 at Bryant Park Winter Village. I think this has to be my favourite memory of wintery New York City. The crisp, cold air against my cheeks as we held hands, zipping across the ice. And this face!

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Hey New York, thanks for showing us a good time.

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Is it too late to be wishing you guys a happy lunar new year? I hope you had a good one, with much bak gwa and lo hei and lovely family time.

We got back just in time to catch the last of the family celebrations. My mom sent us this photo of baby Theo all dressed up and holding an ang pow while we were on our way back from NYC. So festive!

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I’ve missed my babies an awful lot. The downside of rotational traveling is that you leave a part of your heart behind and no matter how much fun you’re having, it’s just not quite complete without all your babies there to share it. Kirsten spent her holiday looking for presents for Tru (“I think kor kor will like this…and this…and this”) and teared up several times because she missed her brother too much. She has since decided that she would rather choose her precious Truett over a holiday in the future.

One of these days, we’ll just go all in and bring 4 kids along with us. When we were at Disney, we saw several families with 4 kids in tow – granted, the parents always looked like their souls had been sucked out of them but still, one day I will do this and live to tell the tale.

Theo has gotten so chubby in the past 3 weeks, it now feels like I’m holding a pudgy little panda baby, it’s the cutest thing. We got back late on Saturday night and I immediately went in to pick him up, breaking my “no waking a sleeping baby” rule because I wasn’t waiting another minute to cuddle my baby. And then I almost dropped him because I wasn’t expecting him to be this heavy.

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He rubbed his sleepy little eyes and reached out to touch my face several times like he wasn’t sure if it was pretend mommy on the laptop or real mommy. When he was satisfied that this mommy was the real thing, he broke into the widest, silliest goofball grin.

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It’s taking me a tremendous amount of self control not to chomp on these superior quality baby rolls but I don’t expect I’ll be able to resist this for much longer. Chomping will begin momentarily.

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I’m sorting out all the photos from the trip and those updates will be up soon, that’ll be fun.

But first, baby giggles!

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This second leg of the trip is turning out to be so exciting on so many levels.

We were heading into New York when our plane flew into some birds during takeoff and we had to turn back to Orlando airport “just to be safe”. It happened while we were getting airborne – there was a thud, followed by a grating sound and then the plane started shaking like it was going through some nasty turbulence. I had no idea what was going on so I glanced at the stewardess seated next to the exit row beside me. Flight attendants are usually pretty cool but she held on to the bottom of her seat and the look she had was the very definition of a face cramp. There was definitely more than the average amount of concern on her face right then.

Moments later, the pilot’s voice came on saying, “ladies and gentlemen, as you may have heard, we have indeed flown into a flock of birds and we will be turning back into Orlando International airport to assess the damage just to be safe.” Ok, good call because on our way back, the plane was making terrible sounds, vibrating and accelerating mid flight. I don’t think I’ve ever felt like I was going to die on a flight before but for a moment there, I had my life flash before my eyes. I thought the husband’s last words to me would have been “I love you” or something deeply touching but he turned back and mouthed “we should have made a will.” Romance is so overrated. I married a practical man and that’s a good thing.

After some checks, we made it safely to New York (yay!!) and it turns out that we’re here in the middle of the most brutal winter in the last 20 years. It’s unbelievably cold, the coldest I’ve ever been in my life. Today’s weather was 13 degrees below 0, with wind chill that makes it feel like it’s 24 below.

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Look at the face of hypothermia. Poor baby sat very still like a block of ice the whole time we were out.

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We had all these plans to stomp around in the snow in central park but there’s been no stomping to be done in this madness. We did take a snowy valentine’s selfie when it started snowing but I almost lost a finger while attempting to take this selfie.

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It was so cold that the kids were bundled up in 2 layers of thermals, 2 wool sweaters, a polydown jacket and a heavy coat, all huddled up in the stroller while we blitzed from point to point. The first day, I tried to ask a nice NYPD officer for directions and my jaw was so frozen I couldn’t enunciate my words. “Cortland Sthreetthhhhh…” My mouth was making unintelligible sounds like I was slurring and he just looked at me with pity until I finally decided to smile and make a hasty getaway. So embarrassing.

We could barely make it 3 blocks without having to take refuge in a store or cafe and one point, we decided to just hoof it for 6 blocks straight and by the time we got back to the hotel, I thought my right ear had fallen off from frostbite. You’d think it’s hyperbole but I really did panic for a split second while I frantically tried to feel around for my ear that had lost all sensation. You don’t know how thankful I am that I still have my extremities intact.

But we’re crazy tourists so instead of staying indoors in the hotel like we’re advised to, we’ve been out shopping, being all touristy at Times Square, having shakes at Shake Shack, lobsters at Chelsea market and shrimps at Bubba Gump, ice-skating at rockerfeller (Kirsten’s bucket list complete – I wasn’t too keen on spending an hour out in the snow but she was so excited to try it so we did and while we were holding hands skating, she looked at me and said “thanks mom, I’ve always dreamed of going ice-skating in the snow” so well, at least my heart was all warm and fuzzy).

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Today, we even made it to church at Christian Cultural Centre after a treacherous 2-hour journey with 2 babies. That we even attempted it was crazy but being in Brooklyn listening to Dr A.R. Bernard made it feel like home.

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We’ll be here for a couple more days so hopefully the weather’s a little kinder to us.

Or maybe we’ll acclimatise to the subzero temperatures ‘and then we can go stomping in the snow. Haha, said no one ever.