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2014

Finn

A case of cabin fever

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It looks like a certain someone has developed a severe case of cabin fever. I suspected this when my homebound little man started putting on his shoes and pressing his face against the gate, yelling “GO! GO!! GO!!!” at various points throughout the day.

I think he realised the yelling wasn’t working very well so he figured out a way to get himself some sun while being stuck at home. There’s this little space by the door where the sunlight comes in just right – he found a sweet spot, made himself all comfy and proceeded to work on a tan for his chubby calves.

I took a photo, went off to fix a drink and when I came back to check on him a few minutes later, he was still at it, looking rather pleased with his progress.

Nothing quite like a baby with gorgeously tanned calves.

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Why, Chinese, Why?

I finally succumbed to my tiger mom instincts and enrolled the kids in one of those preparatory Chinese classes. I thought it’d be good to expose them to an environment of Mandarin-speaking people and they’d get to sing some happy Chinese songs or learn some rhymey Chinese rhymes, dance around a little bit, that sort of thing.

The first week in, Truett came home with a list for 听写. Ok, so maybe they’re diving head first into the deep end but it can’t be so bad, right? Probably a few easy words like 人 or 天.

Hah.

I took a look at the list and the first word was 跳舞. Really? 舞 has like 14 strokes, or ten thousand. I have difficulty just looking at 舞, it makes my head hurt. I’ve seen entire paragraphs in Sanskrit that looked easier to replicate than 舞.

Being the diligent and responsible parent that I am, I sat down with Truett and got him to write 跳舞 5 times. It took him 20 minutes. And then 5 more times. That took even longer.

At which point, he was grabbing his head and looking downright miserable so I covered up the word and told him to try writing it out from memory.

“Just try your best,” I said. “It’s ok if you get it wrong.”

He came up with an elaborate drawing of what looked like a rocket spaceship exploding into a house. Pretty close.

That 听写, he came home with 0 for 3 and he drew a sad face next to his piece of paper. My heart broke into a thousand tiny pieces because my little boy was trying so hard but he was made to feel like a failure by stupid Chinese words. I wanted to sucker punch the Chinese language in the face for being such an ass. I thought of pulling him out of the class to let him enjoy what was left of his pre-Primary carefree life. But the husband said maybe we should just let him soak in the environment of Chineseness for that 100 minutes every week. Even if he failed every 听写, so be it.

I took out the piece of 听写 paper with the big fat 0, cancelled out the sad face and drew a GINORMOUS HAPPY ONE. I drew the happiest face I could draw and told him that this guy was happy because he tried his best and that was something to be happy about. And then I drew a whole bunch of other happy faces because all these people were so damn proud of Mr Happy Face here.

This week was round 2 of 听写. His 3 words were 运动, 电脑 and 巴刹. After 3 days of practice, he could write 运动 entirely from memory, half of 电脑 and 巴刹 still looked like a bunch of random lines.

But it was progress. I’d take 1.5 of 3.

I’ve known it since I was a kid, that the Chinese language was designed to destroy me slowly and in the most painful way possible. I thought I escaped relatively unscathed after taking my final Chinese paper 14 years ago but here it is again, back to torment me. I think this calls for a dramatic sigh.

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Mother-Daughter bonding day at Liang Court

I know very little about Japanese customs and festivals but I do have a soft spot for Japanese food (because a. how can anything be that tasty?? and with b. now that my appetite has returned somewhat, this baby has been giving me terrible cravings for sashimi, ramen and that delicious charcoal grill thing) so it was very interesting to find out about Hinamatsuri, a Japanese Dolls Festival.

Held on 3 March, Hinamatsuri is a day celebrating daughters’ good health and happiness in the family, to show the love and blessing from mothers to their daughters and strengthening the mother-daughter bond. Japanese families put up the Hina Kazuri (a tiered doll display) and girls dress up in their prettiest kimonos. It’s basically a really fun all girl dress up party, plus there are dolls!

Head on over to find out more about Hinamatsuri.

I really, really love the idea, I mean, with all the testosterone overdrive going on at home, any day to celebrate girls is pretty special.

Returning for the second consecutive year, Liang Court celebrates the tradition of Hinamatsuri with a series of super fun workshops, events and gifts.

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Last Saturday was a designated girls day where Kirsten and I had a special mother-daughter bonding session learning how to make bentos with Little Miss Bento at Liang Court’s Level 2 Kids’ Corner. Kirsten was so terribly excited and she was so into the whole thing.

She said she was going to make it as a special treat for her brothers and they were all going to share it since they didn’t get to come along. How did I luck out with the sweetest little girl in the world?

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Looking at all the ingredients and utensils laid out on the table, it did seem a little daunting at first but Shirley, the bento shifu took us through the whole process step by step. Broken down into tiny, manageable steps, it was easy enough even for Kirsten to do most of the steps herself.

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Et voilà! How cute is this? Kirsten managed to make a ball of rice look like her – that is so cute I can’t even urgh…

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And this is our masterpiece at the end of the session. I’m starting to see why bentos are so popular. It makes me want to eat up every last piece of broccoli in there.

I could tell that my little girl was so proud of what she made because she packed it up and held it carefully like a treasured possession all the way home to present it to Truett and Finn. Baby Finn took a bite of the carrot and spat it out so it was left to Truett and Kirsten to finish the whole box, which they totally did. It was so cute to see them holding the lumps of rice with both hands and eating it like little hamsters.

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On a side note, turns out that the Shirley, aka Little Miss Bento, is an old friend from way back in university (what are the odds?) and it was a nice surprise to be able to catch up after the session.

successful bento!!

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Hinamatsuri celebrations will continue at Liang Court till next weekend. Come next Saturday, 1 March, there will be Liang Court’s first-ever “Most look Alike Mother and Daughter Dress up” contest, where 30 pairs of Mothers and Daughters will contest for a chance to be crowned “The Most Creative”, “The Most Talented”, and “The Most Matching Outfits”. That’s going to be so much fun.

On Sunday, 2 March, the celebrations will culminate in an “All Girls Party”, an educational and cultural experience for all shoppers and party guests with traditional Hinamatsuri games such as “Kaiawase” a matching game using clamshells, a Yukata instant photo flipbook booth, and flea market booths selling fashion accessories.

Spend $150* (from 14 Feb to 2 Mar, 1.30pm) to redeem an invitation card# to the “All Girls Party”. Enjoy performances, traditional Hinamatsuri food and receive a free goodie bag. Walk in shoppers are required to purchase an “All Girls Party Carnival Coupon at $15 each. Limited to the first 150 shoppers only.

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Explains why we keep making babies

During a pre-bedtime snuggle slash wacky dance slash crazy playing session with the kids last week, Kirsten abruptly stopped dancing and came to whisper something in my ear.

Kirsten: *whispers* Hey mom, do you know what’s my secret wish?

Me: *whispers back* No…what?

Kirsten: I wish that we will always be best friends forever, me and kor kor and Finn Finn. Even when we’re big like adults.

Me: Best wish ever. Can I make that my wish too?

Kirsten: I think if we both wish together, it will come true.

My heart, it melted.

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Finn

Meanwhile, over at Finntown

WIth all the excitement over the new baby around here recently, it feels like this little dreamboat baby has taken one of those super speed growing pills and grown up a whole lot without us noticing.

Look who’s turning 18 months in a week and more importantly, HOW DID THIS HAPPEN?

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He’s like this confident little kid who does puzzles(?!!), sings at the top of his lungs and holds his own while playing with his big brother and sister. He used to tag behind them like a little forgotten afterthought but now, now he’s all in…dude is an afterthought no more.

This one time, he started doing a crazy handstand like it was the funniest thing and before long, I had a whole circus in my living room.

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group huddle

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I look at him and I couldn’t ask for a more perfect third baby. He hardly fusses and he’s so unassuming that he’s the ultimate low-maintenance baby.

Like he just finds his place and fits right in.

Sometimes he comes to me with his favourite book while I’m halfway through some work and I stall for time with a hug and a kiss to the top of his head and he’ll turn right around to find someone else to entertain him.

Or he sees his siblings laughing over a private joke and he’ll throw his head back, palm his face and guffaw like he’s totally in on it.

Have I already said that I love this kid? I do. I love him so much I can hardly stand it.

Happy almost one and a half, my sunshine boy.

 

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Question: What are the chances that’s not a penis?

Yesterday’s OBGYN check up appointment was exciting – it was the moment of truth, the big reveal. In my head, it was the one where we would find out that baby Hayley is a girl and we’d celebrate because YEAH GIRLS!!! It was supposed to be an epic moment where we’d look at her all serious (through the ultrasound machine) and say “your destiny is to bring balance to the force, young one.

My doctor had the ultrasound machine ready and he was taking his time like “and here’s the head…and the eyes…that’s the little tummy…” while I was like “how about we just skip to the fun girly bits and do the head later.”

Finally, we got to it and there were no girly bits to be seen. Instead, there it was. What seemed like a little package at a spot where I was hoping not to see any um, packages. For a moment, we were all silent, peering intently at what was unmistakably a tiny lump between the baby’s legs.

And then my OBGYN said, “Hmm, it’s not definitive but that sure looks like a penis.”

Ok, I’ve seen penises and he was right, that did look an awful lot like a penis.

My dreams of having another girl was rapidly becoming as fuzzy as that ultrasound image I was peering at.

“What are the chances that’s not a penis?” I asked hopefully. “Could it be part of my umbilical cord tucked at a weird angle?” Or like a slightly lumpy vagina? One time, I saw some really weird, logic-defying pictures on buzzfeed, maybe this is one of those times.”

“Uh, definitely! It’s just a preliminary scan, we’ll know for sure when you do the detailed scan the next round,” he added, sounding a little too sympathetic.

I’m an optimist but I have a feeling it’s time we started thinking of backup boy names.

Well, penis or no penis, baby sure is looking cute and tubby. I already can’t wait to meet him (and yes, I’m reluctantly going with a him).

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How to experience “the life” in Bangkok

Instead of doing our rounds across Bangkok city like we usually do, we spent most of our time exploring the Mandarin Oriental’s hotel grounds and just soaking in the incredible atmosphere. Which turned out to be a good move because the one day we hauled the kids to Chatuchak market, we spent a grand total of 12 whole minutes exploring before the kids delivered their “I’m so tired and it’s so hot, let’s go back to the beautiful hotel” spiel.

But we did at least get to eat the delicious wanton noodles that I’ve been dreaming about so… score!

It was fun just hanging out at the hotel though. One of my favourite sections was the Author’s Lounge, which forms the Author’s Wing, the original wing of the hotel. We hear it’s THE place to get married in Bangkok and I can totally see why. I stood at the top of the stairs and had a little Titanic moment – I have a thing for grand staircases, even though there’s a 42% chance I’ll trip and fall on my face in heels.

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The Author’s Wing is made up of a handful of suites named after the authors who’ve stayed at the Mandarin Oriental. Not too sound too uppity but it’s true – famous celebrities are great and all but authors, they lend an air of class and refinement. Writers like Joseph Conrad and Somerset Maugham wrote some of their books sitting in their suites and looking out over the Chao Phraya River.

We were taken on a tour of the different suites and each of the author’s suites are designed to reflect the personalities of the various authors, some very regal, some elegant and understated, some flamboyant. I can’t decide which one I like best.

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On one of the evenings, we had a BBQ buffet dinner at the Riverside Terrace and the experience was exceptional, both in food quality and attentive service. The selection of fresh seafood, roasted cuts and even sushi was divine. We don’t do a lot of fancy sit down dinners with the kids in tow because they’re volatile in confined spaces and there’s usually a lot of frantic food shovelling required.

But this time, they were on such good behaviour that we were a little surprised. They ate their food promptly, asked for seconds and thirds, made polite conversation, it was all very enjoyable.

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Maybe it’s a sign of age but this new way of experiencing Bangkok has trumped all the other Bangkok trips combined. Then again, the kids had an equally fabulous time.

Truett summed it up best when he sat back at the pool with his hands crossed behind his head and said, “ahhh, this is the life.

Why yes, yes it is.