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2014

to Truett with love

Happy 6, Tru!

Dear Truett,

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Happy birthday, you’re 6 today! I thought I’d write you a letter before you get too big for letters from your mom. Wait, scratch that, momma’s going to write you letters till you turn 18 25 45… for as long as I can write so I guess you should be prepared for that.

The past 6 years has been quite a ride.

Thanks for being the best first kid a mom could ask for. I was such a rookie when you were born and we’ve had to make most of our parenting mistakes with you. Sorry about that. You were our first experience with an infant, the terrible twos, the rough toddler tantrumy phases, the food battles, the meltdowns, the separation anxiety, the preschool jitters, the stress that a 6-year-old has to go through.

You’ll also very likely be our first kid to become a teenager, fall in love, have your heart broken, grow up, change the world. Along the way, you might start to suspect that mommy doesn’t have the faintest idea how to deal with all of that and you’d probably be right. Although I’ve had to go through some of those things myself and having come out the other side, I’m guessing the best thing I can do for you is be here for you when you need me to be. Which I will always be. Mommy’s always just a hug away.

If I haven’t told you enough, we are really proud of you. Watching you grow up has been such a privilege.

I love how you make being a big brother look so easy. All the times you’ve had to suck it up and give in to your baby sister and brother because they’re little, I know it’s not always fair. The way you rush to their rescue and watch out for them to make sure they’re safe (not attacked by ducks, not left in the elevator, not drowned). The way you pat them on the head and tell them that “kor kor loves you”.

I love how you’ve grown up to be a confident little boy. You used to hide behind benches to avoid interacting with people but these days, you hold your own in a conversation with practically anyone. That’s really cool.

I love how you’re not afraid to wear your heart on your sleeve all the time. You give out hugs and kisses and you say “I love you’s” loud and proud even though your friends giggle in the background.

Of all the things I’ve done right in my life, one of the right-est is having you.

Have a wonderful day, my son. Daddy and mommy loves you more than you’ll ever know.

travel

Sydney, Part the 3rd: Featherdale + Vivid

After almost a week in Melbourne, we decided to round up the trip with 4 days in Sydney, well, just because.

We’ve been to Taronga Zoo, the Wild Life Zoo and the aquarium the last visit so this time, we took a 40-minute drive out to Featherdale Wildlife Park for a different experience. And I’m glad we did too because it was the best among all the animal sanctuaries in Sydney. It doesn’t have the lions and giraffes and zebras but if you really want to get up close and personal with Aussie animals, Featherdale is the place to go.

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There are the soft and furry wallabies who would hop up to the kids for a snack…

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And them cuddly sleepyhead koalas…

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Except for this little guy who woke up and started playing peekaboo…

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And a whole bunch of friendly farm animals that are so cute they look like stuffed toys…

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So you know like baby Finn isn’t entirely thrilled with goats after his little goat incident at Collingwood and he was just doing his thing at the farm area when one playful goat sneaked up on him to give him a peck on the cheek. Little man freaked out, backed away hastily and started telling off the goat like “NO NO!! BAD GOAT, BAD, BAD GOAT!!”

Poor boy. I have a feeling he’s not going to be friends with goats anytime soon.

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We were also there just in time for the opening night of Vivid and it was really nice to see the city lit up with all the light shows, installations and fireworks.

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So that just about rounds up our little family getaway down under, as well as our travel plans for the rest of the year.

I think I’ve gotten the travel bug itch under control so I’m going to be good, stay home and get ready for baby Theo. That’s going to be exciting.

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Melbourne, Part the 2nd: Revisiting old favourites

There are 3 things we usually do when we’re in Melbourne:

1. Pop in to say hi to the animals at Collingwood Children’s Farm.

It’s a great little working farm right in the city where the kids get to spend some quality time with the animals. It’s the 4th time we’re there and Truett and Kirsten always feel like they’re in animal heaven. They get to pet the horses, feed the sheep, run after the ducks and snuggle with the guinea pigs.

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We thought baby Finn would take to the animals the same way but turns out that he’s not particularly impressed by animals in general. At the guinea pig petting area, the other two kids were going crazy over the little furballs and he was like “meh, this is so boring…moving along!”

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And then we got them each a bag of animal feed and he took some in his little hands to offer it to one of the goats. I think the goat nicked his fingers a little while eating the food and he got really upset at it so he started glaring at the goat with way too much indignation for a little boy. And the goat? It probably thought it was a game so it stared back so they just stood there making faces at each other for a while. That was hilarious.

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Finn’s favourite part of the farm…was playing with sawdust. This kid is so wonderfully weird.

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2. Ride Puffing Billy.

We took a ride on Puffing Billy last year and it was one of the highlights of our trip so a visit back to the cute little steam train was in order.

Yes, that’s me being a badass while being heavily pregnant. But if you must know, that little move almost gave me a hernia so that was short lived. Being a badass has its price. Worth it though. Sort of.

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me with the boys

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We rode the train to Lakeside, got off for a picnic by the lake and rode back to Belgrave. Not a bad way to spend an afternoon.

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3. Playgrounds!

Melbourne’s playgrounds are pretty rad and the funnest playground award this time goes to this super retro place called Skinners Playground in South Melbourne.

Trampolines! Swings! Tricycles! Climbing things! All kinds of balls! Bunnies! And a friendly chicken.

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Melbourne, Part the 1st: Great Ocean Road

I meant to post sooner but we just got back from our annual mid-year Aussie trip to visit my sister and I am so completely wiped. We’ve been doing this for the past 4 years so I figured this would be a piece of cake but this trip has been the most massive operation by far. We went with all 3 kids (technically 4 if I’m counting the one in my uterus), plus my mom and my helper.

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I thought I’d be posting on the fly like I usually do but by the end of each day, I could barely stumble into bed without falling over, much less attempt to blog. Turns out that being 30-weeks pregnant and chasing after 3 kids all day is ridiculously exhausting.

But other than that, it’s been a really good trip.

It was baby Finn’s first visit to Melbourne and Sydney and I can say definitively that he loves it. This kid clearly inherited his siblings’ travel bug genes. Every single morning, he woke up with a huge grin, yelling “KAI KAI…LET’S GO…YEAH!!!” He was so enthusiastic about everything and it was like looking at the place through new eyes. I loved it.

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We thought we’d do something different this year so we took a drive along the Great Ocean Road for the first time. We’d probably have driven up as far as the Twelve Apostles and Grampians but we didn’t want to push it so hard with so many people in tow (great decision, btw!) so most of our time was spent in Lorne, a pretty little town overlooking the ocean.

Looking at them, I realise that kids don’t need a lot to be happy. All they need are wide open spaces to run, some trees to climb, playgrounds to hang around in, and each other for company.

That pretty much works for me too.

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The kids were so thrilled that my sister’s boyfriend brought his two gorgeous dogs along. Meet Khan and Charlotte. I call them the poofy, slightly aloof one and the heart-meltingly sad one.

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Baby Finn’s Bottom Buddy

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Diaper selection is something of an art – it’s not a decision to be randomly made, lest you suffer the wrath of angry diaper rash or an angrier baby. I’ve had to deal with both of those things and trust me, neither one is fun. So once you find that one diaper that’s just right for your baby, you stick with it.

With Truett and Kirsten, I must have gone through every diaper brand available on the market and I even had an elaborate system of day diapers vs night diapers vs outdoor pants diapers.

Yeah, total noob move.

Baby Finn has been on Drypers since he was born and it’s been working out so well that we haven’t needed a reason to switch. It’s great for daytime, nighttime, stay home time and going out time, pretty much all the time. Drypers has been his bottom buddy from birth and they’re like best of friends.

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And then I just found out that the folks from Drypers have taken a great diaper and made it even better. Introducing the newly revamped Drypers range, featuring Ultimate Comfort for little ones.

Finn has been trying out the new Drypers for the past couple of weeks and I don’t know how they did it, but they’ve managed to improve on an already superb diaper. Here are some features of the newly launched Drypers range.

Soft comfort: It’s the first thing I look for, diapers that are soft to the touch. The new Drypers come with a 100% breathable softer cloth-like cover that feels luxuriously soft on baby Finn’s delicate skin. 

You know what that means right? No more itchy scratchy bum bums.

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Skin comfort: Having soft diapers is good but what’s better is having diapers which are formulated to be gentle on baby’s skin. Each diaper now contains 4 natural plant extracts (Vitamin E, Chamomile, Olive Extract, Aloe Vera) to keep Finn’s bottom moisturised and healthy. These days he’s like “nappy rash? What’s that?”

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Dry comfort: If you ask me, a good diaper is one that’s absorbent and dry, not all squishy and moist after 20 minutes. And these Drypers are ultra absorbent, effectively locking in loose stools and pee.

  • The Wee Wee Dry range comes with an Active Absorb Layer™ that effectively absorbs and distributes urine, keeping baby’s skin dry and comfortable.
  • The Drypantz features Activ-Core™, an absorbent core quickly absorbs urine and prevents flow-back promoting long-lasting dryness.

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Fit comfort: Finally, it’s about diapers that are comfy and well fitted. Too loose and I’ll be mopping up leaks left right and centre; too tight and it’ll be pinching baby Finn’s tubby waist and thighs.

  • The Flexi-tape™ on the Wee Wee Dry range features a specially designed tape that allows for multi-refastening, making diaper-changing a breeze.
  • For Drypantz, the improved waist and tummy elastic are softer and more comfortable

Now when you have a diaper that fits just so, you get moves like this.

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Diapers may seem like a low-involvement, functional item but here’s a secret: it’s so much more than that. Finding a good diaper means a happier baby and a happier me.

Baby Finn isn’t spending all day yanking at an ill-fitted diaper that’s squishy or itchy, and I don’t have to spend all day mopping up super gross leaks everywhere. Which leaves us more time for the happy bonding moments.

From 1st to 30th June, receive a $10 FairPrice voucher when you purchase any 2 packs of Drypers diapers. All you need to do is send in a photo of the receipt (proof of purchase) along with your personal particulars (Name, address, contact number, child’s name and DOB) to sg.contest@sca.com with the subject title “Motherinc”. Promotion not applicable to Drypers Drypantz M4s, L3s, XL3s, XXL3s.

travel

Club Med Coolness

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Club Med has been on our holiday bucket list for a while and I’m glad we finally managed to check it out last weekend with all 3 kids. It was a glorious, sunshiney weekend to head to Club Med Bintan, about an hour’s ferry ride out from Tanah Merah Ferry Terminal.

Being the first time we were bringing baby Finn along for a holiday just the two of us (without any additional adult help), we were a little nervy about the adult-kid ratio. Plus there’s my pregnant belly which reduces mobility by about 70%, so it was effectively like 1.5 adults vs 3.5 kids. It’s a good thing Truett and Kirsten are such seasoned travellers, which helped a lot.

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One of the best things about Club Med is their system of GO’s (Gentil Organisateur). They’re a bunch of young, energetic and enthusiastic Club Med crew who run all the activities, including the super awesome kids club (Mini Club Med). The Mini Club Med program runs from 8.30 in the morning till 5 in the afternoon (they even eat together) and the kids had such a great time hanging out with their newfound friends and GO’s.

Evidently, we’re big fans of Mini Club Med because that means we get to chill out and take a breather while the kids are off having fun.

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While they were at the kids club, they got to try out a whole bunch of really cool activities like the trapeze, trampoline and archery.

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I think the trapeze was Tru’s absolute favourite activity. He panicked a little as he started climbing up the ladder but my brave little trooper powered on and took the leap. He made it look so fun that if I wasn’t pregnant, I’d definitely be trying it out myself.

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Baby Finn was a little too small to join Mini Club Med unsupervised so he got to spend some quality time with us, which he was thrilled to do. I’ve never seen him look so happy – he was yelling “AWESOME…YES!!!” everywhere he went.

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Finally, here’s what happens after a fun-filled day at Mini Club Med.

Ok, only one of these 3 are really sleeping.

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Yeah, that one.

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*Book a Club Med holiday from now till 30 May (travel from May-Oct 2014) and enjoy the Kids Stay For Free promotion at Bali, Cherating, Phuket and Guilin.

Also, you don’t want to miss the Bintan Family Festival from 5th to 8th June, where there’ll be a whole list of exciting activities happening over the span of 4 days, such as a Soccer Clinic with Steven Tan, Child Yoga, Mosaic Art, Eco Arts and Craft, Batik Painting, Ice-Cream Making, K-Pop Dance and Kids Performing. 

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I got your back

Part of the reason why we love traveling with the kids is that we get to see the very best of their interactions. Instead of the usual bickering at home, they’re often extra sweet to each other when we’re on the road. It’s like they instinctively know that they’re supposed to have each other’s backs and they do it so spontaneously that it makes my heart go all mushy.

So this one night at Maldives, there was a torrential thunderstorm going on and we thought we’d brave the rain to head out for a quick dinner. I didn’t think to pack any jackets for the kids and all I had was a thin cotton cardigan that I draped over Kirsten’s shoulders. While we were waiting for the buggy to arrive, she saw Tru shivering in the cold and she immediately walked over to wrap him up with what was left of her little cardigan.

“Quick, snuggle in here with me, kor kor, I’ll keep you warm,” she told her brother while giving him a great big monster hug.

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On the seaplane back to Male, they decided they’d rather sit together so they could have each other for company. Apparently it was more fun than being stuck with one parent each. Halfway through the 45-minute ride, Kirsten had a bit of tummy ache and she was starting to feel mildly crabby.

“Ok, you just put your head on my lap and try to sleep, you’ll feel much better,” Truett instructed her. And then he spent the next 20 minutes patting her head until we arrived.

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Sometimes, these two make me feel like the most awesome mom in the world. But the truth is it’s all them. I honestly couldn’t ask for sweeter kids.